And it doesn't help that so much mainstream and pornographic coverage of lesbian sex is catered to the male gaze, making it seem like it only exists as foreplay for a straight guy, or that it only ever happens between two cisgender, femme women. But the truth is, there is so much more to lesbian sex than any of those things. There are so many creative, intimacy-building, downright HOT ways to get down that don't involve feeling like one woman has to be "the man" or like you're both limited to only oral sex. Whether you identify as queer, bi, or are currently exploring your sexuality as a straight woman, the possibilities are endless.
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Oral sex can seem intimidating for first-timers, but it's a skill that you can work on and improve over time. Regardless, no two women are the same—and each might like something a little different than the other. One of the most exciting things about being with a new partner can be getting that first glimpse of her pubic region. Noticing details, like being cleanly shaven or having a full bush, can be a turn-on. You may also wonder if her inner labia peeks out from her outer labia, or if they're tucked neatly inside.
Contrary to what other narrow-minded, conservative people are saying, there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian or wanting to make love with a fellow woman. Second, you are probably in a relationship with another girl and you are thinking of different ways on how to please your partner. Again, there is nothing wrong with that.